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5 of My Favorite Ways to Motivate My Family to Do Chores


As the adult in your household or classroom, you might anticipate certain chores with glee. To you, spring cleaning is about more than just getting your life in order. It’s an opportunity to reinvigorate yourself with the promise of a vibrant new season.

How to Get Kids Involved in Household Chores

5 of My Favorite Ways to Motivate My Family to Do Chores

Unfortunately, your little helpers aren’t always enthusiastic about ticking off items on your spring cleaning checklist. You’ll inevitably disagree on doing these chores. How can you eliminate the power struggles of doing chores and make chores fun?

Many children have their ideas about their agendas. Other kids dislike tidying up. Fortunately, these attitudes and preferences aren’t set in stone. Rethinking how you scrub, sanitize, and spring clean your surroundings could make things much more fun for everyone involved.

Want to keep your youngsters engaged in welcoming the season? Try these spring cleaning tips to influence your kids’ viewpoints so that they look forward to the occasion as much as you do.

However, before you get going, step back for a moment and think about age-appropriate chores and routines. Think critically about how you determine the suitable chores at the right age.

Spring Cleaning Hacks for Parents

What is Spring Cleaning?

Akin to preparing for the arrival of a baby (aka “nesting”), there is something about spring that inspires us. Spring cleaning gives us a fresh start and allows us time to refresh.  There is a history behind spring cleaning, however.

Back in the day when fireplaces and wood stoves heated the rooms during cold winter, people spent time cleaning their homes, stoves, fireplaces, and so on of the soot that had accumulated over that time.

Nowadays, we take the same approach by opening windows, breathing in the fresh air, and taking advantage of warmer temperatures.  On the other hand, spring cleaning is less of an intentional effort now that we have digital apparatuses and Marie Kondo to help us stay on track in our homes. With that said, the sentiment of “in with the new, out with the old” still rings true.

Spring Cleaning with Kids

#1 – Establish a Spring Cleaning Routine

Set a schedule first. Following a routine lets, you make any event feel doable, and big cleanups are no exception. Give each person something to do. Including yourself can help show that the spring cleaning checklist isn’t one-sided or a punishment. Since the adults usually do most of the heavy lifting, it’s also easy to make the point that you’re trying to be fair.

How to Involve Kids in Spring Cleaning

#2 – Make Goals Together

Motivating a child is way more manageable when you consider their interests. Instead of simply making them clean because you said to, come up with more significant objectives together. For instance, you might let a child know that if they clean up their personal space, they’ll have more room to play and do their favorite hobbies. In other words, involve your kids in a systematic approach to cleaning.

Including your child in the goal-setting process makes them more excited to participate. It’s also a great learning lesson on how planning makes it easier to tackle big tasks. Spring cleaning can look like an overwhelmingly massive affair from a younger perspective. Therefore, you must break it down to make it appear more attainable. Work those executive functioning skills!

#3 – Gamify Cleaning

What’s guaranteed to be more appealing than being responsible and doing chores? It’s playing games. In other words, make doing chores fun and competitive! So think of a few household chores games to bring into your weekly routine.

Chores and fun might seem like complete opposites, but it’s all a matter of attitude. On the other hand, the widespread popularity of chore apps suggests that many families have good experiences transforming housework into a game. Some research on gamifying chores also makes a case for the combo approach.

If more apps and screen time aren’t your cup of tea, then invent new games that don’t need tech distractions. Some parents like keeping dry-erase boards on their refrigerators to track which children complete daily chores each week. Even if you don’t do this all year, it can make a fun spring cleaning game.

Sometimes, doing an everyday chore in a new way makes it more enjoyable. For instance, you could try the Japanese T-shirt folding method and race. Competition is a motivator for my boys!

#4 – Keep Things Age-Appropriate

As I mentioned above, maintaining age-appropriate expectations can help your kids view to-do lists with less dread. They won’t want to join if you go too fast and overload them. You have to find a way to allow them to lead the process based on who they are and what motivates them. Talk to them about how their help benefits the family. Remind them that everyone else has to work harder when one person decides not to work.

#4 – Inspire Your Kids: Connect Chores to Creativity

Most children understand the concept of a chore as a necessary job. Letting them be more creative about how they complete a task makes it an easier pill to swallow.

Get together to watch a video of sand mandalas being built and erased before going outside to clean up the garden. Chop down all the old dead plants, and make designs with the debris. Mulch it all into the garden bed, or rake it away for a clean slate.

Is it looking like a rainy spring? Stay indoors to clean up your old office supplies. Shredding old bills and magazines is always lots of fun. Or recycle whatever you find cluttering up the house. Many of the leftovers from these spring cleaning hacks could become precious creative keepsakes.

#5 – Reward Effort & Progress

Make chore charts and cleaning progress visible with a chore chart. Also, make your system rewards based. With that said, don’t take away from the child’s effort into the chores. Focus on efforts, not reward. It is okay to praise a child but be mindful of how you do it.

Think Carol Dweck.

Still, we’re all human, and certain things do motivate us! So, surprise your kids when you’ve finished. Do something that you know they’ll like and enjoy. It doesn’t have to be huge, but making it rare or unique gives kids a reason to look forward to spring cleaning next year.

One of the best rewards a kid can receive for helping out is a parent who appreciates their assistance. Let yours know that you’re glad to have their spring cleaning help.

Check out this post on how to get your kids involved in holiday planning!

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